Are You Being Celebrated — or Just Tolerated?
Stop shrinking yourself for people who never saw your light to begin with.
There’s a slow kind of heartbreak that happens when you’re surrounded by people who only tolerate you.
They smile.
They nod.
They include you, technically.
But something in their energy says, “Just don’t be too much.”
And after a while, you start to adapt.
You quiet your spark.
You mute your magic.
You shrink — just to stay in the room.
I’ve lived that.
In friendships.
In love.
Even in family.
And I can tell you this: toleration is not love.
It’s not belonging.
And it’s definitely not what your soul came here for.
🌀 Spiritual Insight
Ernest Holmes teaches in The Science of Mind that life is governed by Law — and Law responds to thought. But not just surface thought — it responds to the beliefs we hold about ourselves.
So if we’re attracting relationships that don’t celebrate us…
…it’s not about blaming them.
It’s about asking:
What part of me still believes I don’t deserve to be celebrated?
That’s where the real healing begins.
🌱 A Loving Call-In
You don’t need to fix anyone.
You don’t need to beg for space.
You don’t need to explain yourself into worthiness.
You simply need to surround yourself with people who see you — and say “more, please.” And that starts by seeing yourself.
When you're truly seen, something beautiful happens.
Your spark comes back online.
You start to move again.
Like a boat no longer stuck in a bottle.
That’s the kind of love you deserve.
That’s the kind of mirror that transforms you.
🎧 This week’s podcast episode:
📺 EP102 | Are You Being Celebrated — Or Just Tolerated?
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